As a Virgo and an Astrologer — Virgo is an intuitive scanner of what could and what has happened and how can it be better — people, places, things. It is done out of the desire to provide the ease we dont often receive ourselves.
The archetypes of perfectionism, analytical, organizational can be seen as the expectations others have had of Virgos.
What we desire (some virgos including myself) is to help regulate the nervous system of the ones we love and in turn hopefully ours.
We serve in pleasure - being within our bodies and learning the nuances or another’s, organize to reduce the amount needed from us and our nervous systems and create ease, perfectionism is moreso the accountability and ability to do different AND doing so tweaking until it feels good and right.
There’s a ritual in how we systemically arrange and exist for some it’s overbearing but it feels right to our body and so we intuitively move through the accountability.
Often times our childhood didnt allow virgos to be. They had to be on. This is how coping becomes the scanning, reading, knowing before others do what can fall apart.
a bit of nuance for my fellow virgos. Tell me how it differs for you.
Just remembered @ladydemerald and I discussed some of the this on Astro in Black aka Astro en Negro https://youtu.be/a8QofdfK94w